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Escape from a Love Failure Pattern

Love is extremely easy to fail and is unstable. Factors that romance fails lurk in various places. From the initial stage, such as encounter, conversation, companionship, confession, sexual intercourse, maintaining special relations, the seeds of failure will not run out.

Escape from a Love Failure Pattern

Love is extremely easy to fail and is unstable. Factors that romance fails lurk in various places. From the initial stage, such as encounter, conversation, companionship, confession, sexual intercourse, maintaining special relations, the seeds of failure will not run out.
Failure of love afflicts the hearts of people. People who have been hurt by love may grow up to become good at romance, but it seems that there are not many opposed cases.
That is, the wound completely turns into a grudge, and not only the opponent at that time can not be forgiven, but also those who make remarks or actions that are similar to that person can not be allowed. And, for some reason it will become to repeat the "failure pattern" of love affair.
Thoughts tend to be one way when love feelings are rising. It is not uncommon that one's unintended thoughts precede and go forward without noticing the change of the other's feelings.
A way to escape from a love failure pattern, it is to put the center of love from "my feelings" to "feelings of the opponent". It is not to approach from here, but to make people want to come here.
It is somewhat dangerous to just forget past romance. Even if you intend to forget it in the head, it will remain in the subconscious mind and cause the failure pattern to repeat.
If possible, take counseling etc and not feel emotional about love that failed in the past, remember calmly and self-reflection. By doing so, failed experiences will be good memories and lessons for a lovely romance of the future.

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Jungian Psychology

Dream and Psychological Analysis
We have many dreams while sleeping. Sometimes we remember our dreams, sometimes we do not. Even though we do not remember it at all, in most cases we've been dreaming several times during our sleep.
Multiple Unconsciousness
It seems that humans have consciousness and unconsciousness. As you do your daily life, consciousness seems to think and dominate action. However, unconscious affects people's behavior and ideas in various ways.
Jung and Clinical Trials
Freud is famous for psychology clinical trials. Freud consults and judges each clinical data individually and its content is widely known and is the basis of Freud's psychology. Freud may be the founder of clinical psychology.
Sexual and Social Suppression
It is love to drive people around the world crazy. People are undergoing some form of sexual repression as long as they are engaged in social life. Even in psychology, analyzing sex and its repression is an important hint to understand people's behavior.
The Presence of God
What are the factors that direct people's ideas and control their behavior? As for regulating the minds of people, there are, for example, their own pride and appearance, social rules and customs, and eyes of surrounding people.

Religion and Human Psychology

Who Created What?
We sometimes call God the creator. This is based on the religious idea that God made all things. There is a house because someone made a house. There is a well because someone digged a hole.
Necessity of Faith
People are born, get old, get sick, and die one day. As long as we live, humans continue to suffer. Even if you get the status and honor, whether you become a millionaire or have a lot of children, suffering will not go away.
Job and Jung
Sometimes unreasonable things happen in the world. People who strive will not be rewarded and the right people will be punished. You will think that the world is inequitable when you see that a villainful man becomes a millionaire and good people are forced to live a poor and painful life.

Modern Society and Psychology

Schizophrenia and Depression
It seems that various personality is mixed in the person's mind. Even the same person may be acting bright and happy sometimes, and dark and depressed dometimes. A person who was angry can be in a good mood after a while.
Escape from a Love Failure Pattern
Love is extremely easy to fail and is unstable. Factors that romance fails lurk in various places. From the initial stage, such as encounter, conversation, companionship, confession, sexual intercourse, maintaining special relations, the seeds of failure will not run out.
To prevent Social Bullying and Violence
In modern society bullying and violence are rampant. The weak will be peeled off more and more, the strong will become more active momentum. People who are discriminated against by race or belief in society or victims of violence will not end.
God and Human
Does God exist? What kind of existence is God? How did God make humans? And how should humans understand and think about God? What on earth is God?

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