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When Expectations are Burdensome

When you're on the battlefield, the expectations around you can sometimes be big. Conversely, it can be overburdened with expectations. Surrounding expectations can be effective in fighting and sometimes counterproductive.

When Expectations are Burdensome

Why are the expectations around us both powerful and burdensome? What is the difference between expecting to be powerful and expecting to be burdened? There is a subtle difference between the fighting person's feelings and the surrounding feelings that support him.

Cheering can be counterproductive when the person is not in the mood to fight or is in a slightly negative psychological state. The voices of "Go for it" and "I look forward to it" become burdensome.

If you think, "I'll do it" or "I can go," and if people call for support, you will get on. When you are in a positive psychological situation, the cheering voice also sounds positive. The more you support, the harder you work.

If you are too nervous, you should relax around. Unnecessarily cheering may cause the fighting person to be crushed by tension.

However, you are the only one who fights, and you have no choice but to control yourself. Expectations can be a huge burden. Ultimately, it is up to you to overcome that burden.

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Special Confidence

Enhance Yourself
Before fighting it can be anxious. Isn't the opponent strong? Isn't he not able to win? Isn't the practice method wrong? There is no end to raising anxiety, such as whether or not you will be able to put your skills into production.
The Game is for Fourself
By fighting, one can grow. If you win, you will gain confidence, and if you lose, you can connect to the future if you fight with all your might. The battle is for growth, the game is for yourself.
Feelings of Anger and Hatred
In a battle, nothing is as simple and straightforward as the schema of justice overcoming evil. If we are justice, there is good reason to fight evil, and knocking on evil does not create guilt.

Impact of Surrounding Expectations

Casual Words
When you are a child, the casual words that adults say can have a significant impact over your life. The little words cast by school teachers, cram school teachers and uncles in the neighborhood can affect a child's life.
When Expectations are Burdensome
When you're on the battlefield, the expectations around you can sometimes be big. Conversely, it can be overburdened with expectations. Surrounding expectations can be effective in fighting and sometimes counterproductive.

Self-Control

Image, Video and Image Training
It is said that image training is better for images and videos than for letters and words. You can increase your motivation by seeing images that are doing their best in battles or videos that are winning.
Concentration
Fighting is not always the best. It is difficult to be in a perfect position, and often you have to fight under various bad conditions. Still, when fighting, you have to concentrate.
Creating an Environment to Win
The fighting environment is not created from the beginning. You have to create the environment yourself. If you want to fight and win, you have to create the environment you need to win in small steps.

Coaching to Win

Feel Fate
Good coaches make players feel fateful. I can win if I follow this person. Players will be able to follow their coach with all their power if they can be convinced that they can win if they hear what they say.

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