Family Maturity Theory --- A Harmonious Home
A home should be harmonious. In a home where skirmishes and strife ensue all the time, the family spirit is devastated. In order for the family to be mentally stable and develop better, it is necessary to have a harmonious family. What should I do to make the relationship between husband and wife, parent and child, and siblings harmonious? What should we do to create a harmonious family? Also, what should we stop doing?
Every conflict has a cause. Conflicts do not arise from mere superficial disagreements. When conflicts arise, if we look only at the superficial and direct causes, we will make a mistake in judgment. Behind each conflict, we have to look at the problems deep within the family, such as latent problems in the system that makes decisions at home, dissatisfaction that has accumulated over the years, and the generation of envy due to comparisons with other families. not.
In order to create a harmonious family, it is important to find the deep roots of conflict and change the system so that such roots are not created.
The mental stability of each member of the family is essential for a harmonious family. When someone becomes mentally unstable, the whole family is affected. When someone in the family becomes mentally unstable, or is about to become mentally unstable, it is important that the rest of the family work together to help that person become mentally stable. For that reason, it is important for the whole family to learn what to do to stabilize people mentally on a daily basis.
If you have children in your home, it is also important to create an atmosphere and structure that will allow the children to develop appropriately and better. Problems in the development of children cast a dark shadow over the whole family atmosphere. When creating a home, we must think carefully about what kind of home will allow our children to develop better.
In a harmonious family, harmonious marriage, harmonious parent and child, and harmonious siblings can all be realized at the same time. Relationships between husband and wife, parents and children, and siblings change day by day. In order to maintain amicable harmony in this ever-changing relationship, it is important for all members of the family to have a good sense of balance and to find good ways to maintain good relationships with each other.
At home, it is extremely important to have a solid foundation for life. If the foundation is not solid and the family cannot live a decent life, it is disqualified as a family. In addition to food, clothing and shelter, and child rearing, the family is expected to provide peace of mind and mental stability. Building a better family requires a solid foundation, not only materially and financially, but also mentally.
A home should be harmonious. In a home where skirmishes and strife ensue all the time, the family spirit is devastated. In order for the family to be mentally stable and develop better, it is necessary to have a harmonious family. What should I do to make the relationship between husband and wife, parent and child, and siblings harmonious? What should we do to create a harmonious family? Also, what should we stop doing?
A home is a training ground for a person. As children grow up, they learn the importance of the basics of life such as food, clothing and shelter, human relationships, social rules, money laws, and how to use words at home. As an adult, you will train at home while experiencing marital life and child-rearing. And even if you become an old man, you will train at home while being aware of the impending death. People continue to practice "at home" all their lives.
Maintaining a home costs money. In order to maintain a home, we must maintain a balance between income and expenditure. In other words, to keep the household finances in order. Having a solid household budget is also important to solidify the foundation of the family and create a better home. In order to create a better home, it is important to learn about household finances as a person.
A home is a place of life. As you live, the space becomes more and more dirty. If people continue to live in a dirty space, they will gradually become unhealthy and become more susceptible to mental illness. Keeping your living space clean is important for the physical and mental health of those who live in it. In order to become a better member of society, people must learn the importance of maintaining cleanliness while running a family life.
Home should be a safe place. Not only can you protect yourself from foreign enemies and disasters, but it is also important to prevent accidents and incidents from happening at home. We will eliminate factors that impair safety and teach children the importance of living safely. It would also be desirable to have a space that would allow them to live safely in the event of injury, illness, or old age.
A home is a place where people take nourishment, purify their mind, body and clothes, rest, interact with their families, and refresh themselves. In order to maintain a home with a limited budget and time, I would like to make my home more efficient. However, preserving old traditions, which may seem inefficient at first glance, is also important in order to maintain a family.
Home is where people learn the importance of love and gratitude. Unhappy are those who have not learned what love is and why it is important to be grateful. A happy family is filled with love and gratitude. For better character development, it is important to know more about love and gratitude. As you continue to learn about love and gratitude, teaching each other as a family matures the family.
At home, we have to teach what school can't teach. First of all, let's decide the rules and manners as a member of the family and educate everyone. Then, I will teach you how to deal with various life crises, how to maintain your physical and mental health, how to process information such as news and gossip, and other important things in life. Let's leave behind wisdom and pass it on to our children and grandchildren.
A home must have an environment, ideas, efforts, and cooperative relationships that allow the family to live in good health. Only when the whole family is healthy can you live a bright and positive life. It is necessary that the home, furnishings, and various other environments consider the health of the family. Furthermore, it is important for each member of the family to try to live a healthy life and to support each other so that other members do not fall ill.
Eating is necessary to live. However, for humans, eating has an important meaning that goes beyond mere nutritional support to sustain life. Eating together as a family is an important act that reaffirms the warmth and security of the home, as well as the bonds of the family. It is also an important ceremony for families to work together to cook and clean up after themselves. Eating plays a very important role in the maturity of the family.
If the family is prosperous, each member of the family will be happy and happy. We cannot hope for the prosperity of the family if the family is quarreling and pulling each other's legs. For the family to prosper, all members of the family must unite, work together, encourage each other, and strive for prosperity. Good teamwork is essential for a prosperous family, along with a good sense of purpose.
Money management is important at home. Poor money management can lead to financial difficulties. In addition, it is important to save money on a regular basis to prepare for large expenses in the future. If possible, I would like to find ways to increase my income and reduce unnecessary expenses. How you manage your money can make a huge difference in your family's future.
The family has many roles in society. There is a role to prepare for going out into society and to nurture them so that they will not get into trouble after going out into society. It plays a role as a place of relaxation to relieve social stress and to exchange honest thoughts that cannot be said outside. The family is not in conflict with society, but can cooperate and work together for the betterment of society.
Someone has to support the family. There are jobs inside and outside the home to support the family. Inside the home, there are jobs such as cooking, laundry, and cleaning, and outside the home, there are various social activities and jobs that support the family financially. A family can be maintained through the work of the members of the family that make up the family. The work of the family supports the family. The home is also where families learn how to do work and what it means.
There are hard times in the family. It's hard when a family member is sick, when the whole family is hit by a major disaster, or when you have to leave your family. If possible, I don't want to do hard things, but at the same time, I have to be prepared for when hard things happen. Also, family love and bonds are tested to see how much they can support each other when hard things happen.
Home is a place of mutual help. At home, people learn and practice helping each other. People can survive by helping each other. What does it mean to help each other, and how can we help each other to create a better home? Isn't the intention to "help" just an unnecessary meddlesome? People learn better "helping each other" at home. Learning to help each other is learning how to live.
Let's mature the family. Let's make the home a better place for character building, a better place for mutual help, and a better place for love and bonds. Let's create a healthier, brighter, and more prosperous home. Continuing efforts to create happy families while cooperating with each other will help develop communities and societies, as well as prosperity of nations.
