December 2023 3rd: What successful people do that you don't and vice versa
You want to succeed. You want to do well. However, it doesn't go well. You often have such problems.
There are times when something doesn't go well, you get stuck in your business, and you don't know what to do. What do you do in such a case?
One way is to try something at random. One way might be to try your best in the way you have been doing things until now. Working long hours. Work twice or three times as hard as others. Sometimes it might work out that way. However, no matter how hard you try and force yourself to do things the way you've always done them, you'll reach your limit someday. Even if you try hard even though you're doing it wrong, it won't work.
But that doesn't mean it's a good idea to give up everything and start something completely different. New ways of doing things bring new troubles and challenges. If you've never done something before, it's not something you can do easily if you try it for the first time.
So what should we do? When things don't go well or we're stuck, how can we break out of the current situation?
First, calm down and think for a moment. Let's review our current situation.
When reviewing your current situation, it is recommended to compare yourself with someone who is successful. It is difficult to find problems by just looking at your current situation. However, if you compare yourself with successful people, it will be easier to spot the problems.
When making comparisons, it will be difficult to notice problems if you have your own preconceptions or feelings. Let's try to step away from ourselves for a moment and look at it from the perspective of successful people.
However, it is difficult for people to separate themselves from themselves and reconsider themselves. In such cases, it may be a good idea to use a consultant. When you are worried or stuck, the advice of a professional consultant is invaluable. When receiving a consultant, be honest and be willing to accept advice even if it makes you uncomfortable.
There are two points to consider when comparing yourself to successful people. One is to find out what successful people do that you don't. The other thing is to find out what you are doing that successful people are not doing.
Everyone wants to believe that he or she is always right. But if you want to succeed but can't, there's something wrong with you. By finding it, you will be one step closer to success.
Make a list of things that successful people do that you don't. Start doing them as soon as possible and make them a habit for yourself.
Make a list of the things you are doing that successful people are not doing. And try to stop them as soon as possible. If necessary, change your environment to remove yourself from such "bad habits."
When something doesn't go well or you're stuck in business, it's important to throw away your pride and fixed ideas and learn from those who have succeeded. Don't overlook even the smallest thing and make the "habits of successful people'' your own. At the same time, let's get rid of the bad habits that successful people don't do.
By doing so, you will be one step closer to success.
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