May 2023: Characteristics of people who repeat the same mistakes
People who repeat the same mistakes have the following eight characteristics.
1. don't listen to the end of what people say
People who don't listen to the end are more likely to fail. Listening to people will give you more information and help you make better decisions. However, people who only listen to people halfway will jump to conclusions. Quick decisions often lead to failure. People who make the same mistakes over and over often don't listen to what others have to say.
2. try to hide failure
Many people who try to hide their failures are pretentious. For your own sake, you pretend to be doing well for others. Then, when others flatter you, you feel better, and you hide your failures by pretending that you are doing better. Hide your failures for your own sake, and then repeat them.
3. blame others for failure
Many people who want to blame others for their failures do not reflect. If you don't reflect, you won't improve. If there is no improvement, the same mistakes will be repeated. When you fail, it is important to "find ways to improve". If you blame others for your failures, you will not be able to find appropriate improvement measures.
4. cling to past successes
People who cling to past successes are vulnerable to the changing times. Times change. Past successful experiences are becoming increasingly obsolete. If you continue to do business by clinging to past successes, you will end up repeating failures. It is said that clinging to past successful experiences is the biggest factor that has driven many large companies into financial crisis.
5. Hate others saying something
People who don't like others to say something to them are unnecessarily proud. Human beings need pride. However, people who are too proud to listen to others' criticism, advice, and suggestions are more likely to make mistakes. He gets depressed when other people say bad things to him. However, if you can find a hint to avoid repeating the same mistakes, it will be meaningful advice to improve yourself.
6. to believe one's own lies
Some people lie when others point out their mistakes. And as you continue to lie, you may end up believing the lie you told yourself. It's a bit dangerous to believe the lies you tell yourself. While deceiving yourself with your own lies, you will lead a life of repeated failures.
7. unwilling to learn new things
A person who refuses to learn new things is a person stuck in the past. Times change. Looking to the future, more and more new things are beginning. If you don't learn new things, you will be left behind. If people who are left behind make mistakes, they will continue to make those mistakes.
8. Just try to forget past mistakes, and really forget
What do you do when you make a mistake? When you fail, reflect, find lessons, and get back up better. If you can reflect and improve, failure should be a good experience. Repeated failures simply try to forget their past mistakes. And really forget. Then, when you forget it, a similar situation will come and you will repeat the same mistake.
Let us pay attention to the characteristics of people who repeat the same mistakes above. And let's review our thoughts and actions so that we don't become a person who repeats the same mistakes. For the future, start now.
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